{"id":20033,"date":"2017-04-27T11:40:02","date_gmt":"2017-04-27T18:40:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/medicalfitnessnetwork.org\/public\/?p=20033"},"modified":"2017-04-26T16:16:35","modified_gmt":"2017-04-26T23:16:35","slug":"will-legacy-defining-living-vision","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medfitnetwork.org\/public\/all-mfn\/will-legacy-defining-living-vision\/","title":{"rendered":"What Will Your Legacy Be? Defining & Living Your Vision"},"content":{"rendered":"

The value of a life well lived is in the legacy we leave behind at the end of it. I have often thought over the past two decades about my own legacy. How will I be remembered? Is it in my words? My deeds? My character? My integrity? Or all of these \u2013 and more. As I look into my future I realize it is my mission to leave behind something of value \u2013 a \u201cpiece of me\u201d that touched others along the way during my life. This is why I have made it my purpose to study both the principles \u2013 and processes – of healthy aging as I have learned and practiced them in my own life<\/p>\n

\"\"In 2006 when I finally sat down to write my first book on the subject of healthy aging, I realized I needed to have a unifying principle \u2013 or thought – behind the knowledge I was about to reveal. I chose the following quote from Ralph Waldo Emerson \u2013 one that I had retained from many years before from a source I cannot recall. I wrote this quote before I considered any subjects for my table of contents \u2013 or any other aspect of my book. It goes as follows:<\/p>\n

\u201cTo laugh often and love much. To win the respect of intelligent persons and the affection of children, to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others, to give of oneself; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition, to have played and laughed with enthusiasm and sung with exultation, to know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived \u2013 this is to have succeeded.\u201d (1803-1882)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

This quote for me captured the essence of what our health means to me \u2013 that we can live a full and enriching and fulfilling life because we value not only WHO we are but WHAT it is we are to do \u2013 our mission \u2013 founded upon our VISION of the life we finally commit ourselves to living. Our legacy takes form as our consciousness evolves over time and the value that we hold for ourselves is translated \u201cinto the world\u201d as we grow and mature as human beings. Therefore we are committed not only to our \u201creason for being\u201d but to our own \u201cwellbeing\u201d as well. This then is the core of my most important belief: That we are here to fulfill our OWN unique PURPOSE through discovering, developing and sharing our \u201cnatural gifts\u201d \u2013 and ultimately our heart \u2013 as our \u201cgift to life\u201d.<\/p>\n

Discussion<\/strong><\/h4>\n

I believe the legacy we leave behind in life is clearly defined in the WORDS we choose say, the THOUGHTS we think (and share), the BELIEFS that define us, the CHOICES that we make, and finally in the ACTIONS that we take. The INTEGRITY with which we live our lives is the sum total of our life experience (Who we are on the inside is who we are on the outside \u2013 \u201cwe easily walk our talk\u201d). The reason I am stating this position so clearly is that in the 21st<\/sup> century it is apparent to me that it is in \u201cwinning\u201d that we become more \u2013 have more \u2013 and thereby become special.<\/p>\n

I disagree with this premise for living life. There are no winners and losers \u2013 there are only individual souls doing the best that they can under the circumstances. Each of us is a part of the tapestry of life and no one is more important than anyone else in the work we all are attempting to do to find value in living the best life we can \u2013 and leave life better than we found it.<\/p>\n

Here are my thoughts on the keys to living a fulfilling and rewarding life:<\/p>\n

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  1. WORDS<\/strong> \u2013 Words have power because they reflect US in all our unique ways. They capture the thoughts and ideas we are entertaining and allow us to explain the world as we understand it. Our words reflect who we are on the inside. They can speak to love, honor, compassion, forgiveness and gratitude or to despair, sadness, hate, suspicion, regret or guilt. They are how we express ourselves to the world \u2013 in writing as I am doing here – or in spoken form as I do when I am speaking to an audience.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Choosing our words wisely is important for they set in motion the experiences of our lives so remember LISTEN before you SPEAK. Remember \u201cThumpers Rule\u201d (Bambi): \u201cIf you got nothing nice to say, DON\u2019T say nothing at all\u201d! I wish I had remembered this rule in my past \u2013 it would have saved me a great deal of heart ache and suffering!<\/p>\n

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    1. THOUGHTS<\/strong> \u2013 \u201cThoughts are things\u201d \u2013 meaning they carry power to our conscious mind and out into our world. They are the beginning of forming our reality \u2013 in connection with our belief systems about life. They are the foundation upon which we carry our life forward and form the vision for our lives. They are the \u201cbedrock\u201d of everything we value about life itself. It is therefore prudent to become \u201cconscious\u201d of our thoughts and to guard them well. They will eventually evolve over time into the ideas we hold not only about ourselves but others as well. This is where conflict \u2013 or harmony \u2013 reside \u2013 in our thought processes and how we communicate them to the world. Guard your thoughts well \u2013 respect the mind\u2019s power to create and energize the world you inhabit!<\/li>\n
    2. \"\"<\/a>BELIEF SYSTEMS<\/strong> \u2013 Beliefs are acquired over time and form the foundation for the understanding we have of the world. They come from sources large and small \u2013 from our parents, teachers, those we respect, institutions, experiences we have, perceptions of life based upon our own \u201cinner guidance\u201d or intuition \u2013 and so many more. They \u201ccolor\u201d our view of the world and can lead to separation and judgment or love and peace and prosperity depending upon how we align our hearts and minds. If we see love in the world it is because we love ourselves. If we see suspicion and fear it is because we live in fear and suspicion of people and circumstances. It is in NOT reacting to life\u2019s journey but being \u201cresponsive and open\u201d to all of life\u2019s lessons that we thrive and prosper. Healthy aging depends upon being open, receptive, loving, forgiving and grateful \u2013 not closed off and bitter. I am practicing this concept every day of my life through meditation and prayer work begun long ago in the 80\u2019s when I discovered my OWN spiritual path. Do this for yourself and you will be rewarded in kind.<\/li>\n
    3. CHOICES<\/strong> \u2013 Choices are where life meets our expectations and understanding of ourselves. We make choices everyday \u2013 either consciously or unconsciously \u2013 and through choosing we live the life we hope for or the one we want to change. \u201cChange is the only constant in the natural order\u201d as one of my favorite teachers taught me in 1982 and through our choices we become ALIVE to the POSSIBILITIES of our life.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      \u201cChoose wisely\u201d the knight cautioned Indiana Jones in the final chapter of the series when he went in search of the Holy Grail and found it hidden in the many examples spread before him. To save his father\u2019s life he chose the least ornate option which proved correct and he thus saved his father\u2019s life. Choosing wisely is very essential for living a life well lived so remember to be careful in your choosing \u2013 choices can transform your life or do great harm.<\/p>\n

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      1. ACTIONS<\/strong> \u2013 \u201cActions speak louder than words!\u201d We all know this important phrase but do we really understand its meaning? This phrase is part of what I believe Shakespeare was seeking when he wrote \u201cTo thine own self be true\u201d \u2013 the greatest thought ever shared in all of English literature. Our actions \u201cspeak\u201d for us \u2013 and about us. They capture for me the essence of our humanity. Through acting on purpose we can change not only our world \u2013 but the world around us as well. Over the past 35 years I have been relatively honest with the choices I have made and for the actions I have taken. For the most part I have been left with a feeling of great respect for the power of \u201cacting on purpose\u201d and to this day I care about my life deeply because of the choices I have made \u2013 and the actions I have taken. My commitment to writing and speaking is an example of this care.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Conclusion<\/strong><\/h4>\n

        I mentioned vision at the outset of this article and I think it only fair to let you know what my vision is. The first chapter in Healthy Aging & YOU<\/a> is entitled \u201cCreating a Vision\u201d because I believe a life lived with a clear vision is the reason we can enjoy a life \u201cwell lived\u201d. Following a vision is following your dream \u2013 your heart \u2013 and in following your heart you cannot go wrong. You will be rewarded many times over for being who you truly ARE and that is a legacy well worth leaving behind you at the end of your journey here on earth.<\/p>\n

        Nick\u2019s Vision<\/strong><\/h4>\n

        \u201cHealthy aging is a consciousness issue. It is not merely the death of our cells but is a complex and dynamic process that is grounded in change as life unfolds for each of us. The challenge as I see it is in discovering the potential that lies within each of us to become all that we were meant to be- mentally, physically, and spiritually. This potential can carry us to living lives of fulfillment, peace and prosperity if we remain PRESENT during each moment of our lives \u2013 living consciously. Learning about who we are ‘from the inside \u2013 out’ while acting upon our choices in the present moment, enables and empowers us to live a life of great accomplishment. This is my vision of a world that possible.”<\/p>\n

        Originally printed on HealthyNewAge.com<\/a>. Reprinted with permission from Nicholas Prukop.<\/em><\/p>\n

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        Nicholas Prukop is an ACE Certified Personal Trainer & a Health Coach, a fitness professional with over 25 years of experience whose passion for health and fitness comes from his boyhood in Hawaii where he grew up a swimmer on Maui. He found his calling in writing his first book \u201cHealthy Aging & You: Your Journey to Becoming Happy, Healthy & Fit<\/a>\u201d and since then he has dedicated himself to empowering, inspiring and enabling people of all ages to reach for the best that is within them and become who they are meant to be \u2013 happy, healthy and fit \u2013 and be a part of a world where each person can contribute their own unique gifts to life.<\/em><\/p>\n

        If you need help in designing a fitness plan, you can contact Nicholas Prukop via email at\u00a0runningnick@sbcglobal.net\u00a0or read his inspiring book\u00a0Healthy Aging & YOU<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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